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Romantic love is not without money, marriage without money, love and money are like wind, easy to go to the two extremes of marriage, love and material sandwiched in the middle, too weak to turn the friction head, it is really embarrassing, lively netizens love more confused: I just don't love money, what is money and love can come too much: marry a rich man, far less than Make yourself rich, after all, different from love and marriage, only two people love each other, and marriage is a group of people to do, but the other half will spend two-thirds of their life. Pauline: marry a person worthy of love is the most important money. When you have money, it really has nothing to do with love.
When you feel that the world has already existed, maybe your real spiritual world may be due to your lack of love No gain, you hate the hypocrisy of love in this world, you hate everything that is exchanged with money: now that he has no money, he dares to predict whether he will be rich in the future. If he marries a rich man, he can predict the rich man in the past life. If he can earn money, only people have motivation, that's enough.
Don't marry a rich man. If I really love him, I will marry him. Of course, he loves me.
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标签: 新学期
In this funny, casual talk from TEDx, writer Jenna McCarthy shares surprising research on how marriages (especially happy marriages) really my opinion, marriage is more than just a ring on your finger ,it’s a bond between two people that should grow over time and add value to your life.
Is marriage indispensable to persons of the right ageAfter watching the speech,my answer is absolutely YES. Responsibilities always comes with rights during marriage in which,I think,the benefit play a dominant role. Marriage is an intimate and enduring relationship that grows over time and makes you a better person. Also,marriage is linked to health and economic benefits. According to the video,married individuals tend to have better physicalhealth, psychological well-being, and a lower mortality risk. Financially, married men tend to earnmore, and married women are less likely to fall into poverty. Marriage is also linked to greater wealth accumulation.
Marriage is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by may wander how to maintain a happy marriageThe speech given some answers to some of all, you should clear why marriage matters to you and why you are wiling to spend the rest of your life making the relationship a ’more,the central point of the suggestions given by Jenna McCarthy,eg. keeping yourself more attractive and thinner than your husband, focusing on the positives/praise-worthy moments ,is cherish, giving and is contagious contagious. So we have to be intentional to place ourselves in the company of those who are striving to make marriage better.
Building a strong and intimate marriage starts from within yourself, and then becomes a bond between you and your partner that lasts a conclude,I agree highly with the speaker’s viewpoint: whether you're in it or you're searching for it, marriage is an institution worth pursuing and protecting.
There is a heated discussion these days since Chinese on-campus students are legally allowed to get married before they complete their courses. Some people applaud this new development while others have expressed their concern about this.
On the one hand, college students will inevitably have less time and energy for their academic life because married students have more realistic problems to deal with than those unmarried ones. On the other hand, a number of students do have a desire for an ideal marriage. They are old enough to take the responsibility and if they handle it well, marriage can bring them happiness and a sense of security.
In my opinion, it is unnecessary to forbid on-campus students to get married; however, it shouldn't be advocated or encouraged, either. The reason is that, for on-campus students, their main task is to acquire knowledge. If they get married, the family chores might distract them from studying, thus they may not graduate favorably or may not be capable of future works. I believe almost all on-campus students would deal with the question reasonably.
To fulfill its functions, family can pave the way for a better future of the family than to love husband and wife, parents, children and all family members. A family that can survive in hardship and pass on from generation to generation is characterized by love and harmonious marriage. A famous person once said that in an existing world, there is no more powerful force than love.
Love needs to be reflected in the way of cooperation and sharing. With a happy marriage, the family will be happy.
中文翻译:
家庭要履行它的功能,比爱夫妻、爱父母、爱孩子、爱所有家庭成员,都能为家庭的美好未来铺平道路。能在艰苦中生存、代代相传的家庭,其特点是爱与和谐婚姻家庭的基础一位名人曾说过,在一个存在的世界里,确实没有比爱情更强大的力量了,爱情需要以合作和分享的方式来体现,有了幸福的婚姻,家庭才会幸福。
Unless you have good interpersonal skills, your hope of a comfortable marriage may be greatly reduced, and to ensure that you are not disappointed, forgiveness and communication seem to be the key to maintaining a happy marriage, the researchers said. The study was conducted by researchers at the universities of Ohio and Florida, who conducted an independent four-year survey of all spouses. Their research, published in the journal Personality and social psychology, found that these people who believed in their partners would always be kind and loving, and agreed with their every word, could maintain a positive attitude through forgiveness.
The researchers said that they could explain their partner's negative behavior with kindness. However, those expectations were high, but they didn't have these interpersonal skills In contrast, a more prosaic view of a loved one means that James McNulty, a professor of psychology at Ohio University, is likely to be quickly materialized, as their prince charming or princess charming falls from their throne You're less likely to be disappointed and therefore more satiied with your marital status and therefore more satiied with your marital status, said researchers led by McNulty. _Unlike the view that early marital expectations have a major impact on satiaction, current research shows that the impact of expectations is on the skills that partners bring to their relationships._ previous studies have found that people tend to choose like-minded partners who they believe they can maintain a stable relationship, _he said.
Contrary to the old adage of _attracting,_ US researchers say people looking for a long-term relationship should choose a partner similar to themselves rather than the best.
中文翻译:
研究人员说,除非你有很好的人际关系技巧,否则你想要一个舒适的婚姻关系的希望可能会大大降低,为了确保你不会失望,保持新婚幸福的关键似乎是宽恕和交流。这项研究由俄亥俄州和佛罗里达州大学的研究人员进行,他们对所有配偶进行了为期xx年的调查。他们的研究发表在《人格与社会心理学》杂志上,发现了这些相信自己的伴侣会永远善良,充满爱心,并且同意他们的每一句话,他们可以通过宽恕来保持积极的心态,研究人员说,对伴侣的消极行为做出善意的解释然而,那些期望值很高但没有这些人际关系技巧的人,很可能会很快地被现实化,因为他们的白马王子或白马公主从他们的宝座上掉下来,相比之下,对爱人持有一个更平淡的看法意味着俄亥俄大学心理学教授詹姆斯·麦克纳尔蒂(James McNulty)领导的研究人员说,你不太可能失望,因此会对自己的婚姻状况更加满意,并因此对自己的婚姻状况更加满意。
他说:“与婚姻早期的期望对满意度产生主要影响的观点不同,目前的研究结果表明,期望的影响与伴侣给他们的关系带来的技能“先前的研究发现,人们倾向于选择志同道合的伴侣,他们相信他们能够维持稳定的关系。这一发现与古训相反,即“吸引”相反,研究人员表示,寻找长期关系的人应该选择与自己相似的伴侣,而不是寻找最优质的伴侣。
Marriage, where is the house we built for love? It's not the tomb of love. Love without a house will not last long. We need to change our partners to keep the feeling of love in the middle.
Love with a house can last in a living body. It can be said that it is a family, but it does not mean that love is connected by blood. Men and women without blood relationship can not form a prison like family relationship Of course, if we want to take marriage as the grave of love, I can't say anything.
Don't overestimate marriage in love and love. Don't make love sad with trivial things. We can live in our spiritual world forever and let our hearts lose.
Just like we are drunk, marriage sticks to it freely in the most realistic secular life Two people become a pot of porridge, they will be the same person, but if can become a whole, love and marriage will be different things, they also get the joy of seizing the opportunity.
中文翻译:
婚姻,我们为爱而建的房子在哪里不是爱情的坟墓没有房子的爱情不会持续太久,我们需要改变伴侣来保持爱的感觉在中途,而有房子的爱可以在一个活生生的身体里持续,可以说是家庭,但不等于血缘相连的爱情没有血缘关系的男人和女人不能像亲情那样形成牢固的关系当然,如果要把婚姻当情的坟墓,我也不能说什么,在爱情的情感上不要高估婚姻,不要在婚恋中用琐碎的小事让爱情悲伤,可以永远活在我们的精神世界里,让我们的心迷失,就像我们喝醉了一样,婚姻在最现实的世俗生活中不拘小节地坚持着,把两个人变成一壶粥他们将是同一个人,但如果能成为一个整体,爱情和婚姻将是不同的东西,他们自己也得到了抓住机会的快乐。
We have talked about them from the beginning of participating in social activities. Different people have different feelings, vision and experience for them. Even now, I really don't know what love is, but I have some indescribable feelings in my heart.
Maybe love has different meanings at different times when men and women meet. Love and marriage have a strong desire and attraction for a person And romantic feelings make them meet and fall in love, and marriage makes them deep and gentle. The unspeakable feelings and pity in love at first sight may only take a few milliseconds, but the real process of love is a series of actions and changes.
The love brought by lovers is the basis of marriage. Marriage makes them marry because of love. Everyone wants to love each other and each other Love is compatible with his or her weaknesses, problems and solutions are also mixed with love.
Most of them are unexpected, because they are caused by the most common and daily objects. My love and attraction have shifted to family, children, career and so on, which makes my wife resentful. A convincing explanation is necessary to let her know that love will never stop what I have Everything you do.
中文翻译:
我们从参加社会活动开始就谈论过他们,不同的人对他们有不同的感觉、眼光、经历,即使现在,我真的不知道什么是爱,但我内心深处有一些难以言喻的感觉,也许那就是爱情在男女相遇的不同时期会有不同的含义,相恋成婚对一个人有强烈的欲望和吸引力,性和浪漫的情感使他们相遇,相爱,结婚使之变得深沉,温柔,在一见钟情中不可言传的感情和怜悯之情也许只需要几毫秒,但真正的爱情过程是一连串的行动、改变,把恋人带来的爱情是婚姻的基础,而婚姻使他们因为爱情而结婚,每个人都想要彼此相爱,彼此相爱,与他或她的弱点兼容,问题和解决办法也夹杂着爱,其中大多数都是出乎意料的,因为它们是由最普通、最日常的物品引起的我的爱和吸引力转移到了家庭、孩子、事业等方面,让我妻子抱怨不已,一个有说服力的解释是必要的,让她知道爱永远不会停止我所做的一切。
A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, _I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage,_ she offered. _Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together._
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
_I'll start,_ offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill 3 pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
_What's wrong?_ she asked. _Nothing,_ the husband replied, _keep reading your list._
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
_Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists,_ she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, _I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you._
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
一个男人和他的女朋友结婚,举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。
所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。
穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人,穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。
几个月后,妻子走近丈夫提议说:“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章,说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说:“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上,然后我们商量一下怎样解决,以便使我们的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里,他们都在思考这个问题,并且把他们想到的`都写下来。
第二天早上,吃早饭的时候,他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子,上面列举了很多条,事实上,足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候,她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。
“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么,”丈夫答道,“继续念吧。”
妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上,两手交叉放在上面。
“现在该你念了,然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。
丈夫平静地说:“我什么也没写,我觉得像你这样就很完美了,我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人,我不想让你改变。”
妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了,她转过头去哭起来。
生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼,我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是,当我们放眼四周时,为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼,而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢?
美文赏析:幸福就是投入
姜太公钓鱼——愿者上钩。幸福是什么?仁者见仁吧。真正的幸福或许就是没有目的的投入,知足常乐哦。
幸福就是投入
Under the scorching sun, an old man sat by the bank staring at the buoy on the river. From dawn to dusk he still got nothing in his hands. However, the old man was happy at ease. I felt so puzzled about it.
The old man said with a smile,”I’m the fish and the fish is me, I’m fishing and I’m also being fished; like playing chess, the fish and I have such an equal stamina that I have a wonderful time.” At this point, an urchin threw a stone into the water. A circle of ripples wafted over. The old man said, “The wind rises.”
Life is a chess game while happiness is devotion.
烈日下,一老翁坐在岸边,两眼一动不动的盯着河面的浮标,从日出到日落,依然两手空空,老翁却怡然自得,乐在其中。我很是纳闷。老翁笑着说:“我即鱼,鱼即我,我在钓鱼,鱼也在钓我,就像下棋,我和鱼的耐力旗鼓相当,这才过瘾.”一顽童向水中扔一块石头,一阵波纹飘荡过来,老翁曰:“起风了。”人生就是一盘棋,而幸福就是投入。
美文赏析:Next happiness,when will come?下一班幸福,几点开?
下一站会更幸福吗?没有人知道。那只是我们美好的愿望而已。如果这一刻感觉是对的,请珍惜。把握现在远比憧憬未来更实际。
Aphrodite is a beautiful goddess. Her birth was a mysterious day. On the day when the Olympians began to enjoy power in the universe, the bubbles floating on the sea sparkled with sacred glory.
From the waves rose a beautiful and lovely girl, exuding warmth and charm. She was then taken to Cyprus by the sea fairy and became her sacred island. Her beauty is indescribable.
She is rightly called beautiful. She died wearing a golden crown. Her eyes were deep and soft, full of warmth.
Her long pendant hung over her round neck and white chest. Her slender fingers and rose feet add to her elegance. When she ascended Olympus for the first time, her slim Lily figure not only aroused the worship of the gods, but also aroused the intense jealousy of the goddess.
She was appointed goddess of love and marriage. She traveled around in a carriage drawn by sparrows or swans, inspiring love in people's hearts. With the help of her little son, Cupid, she made up many stories about the joys and sorrows of God and man's life.
Not so serious, she introduced the idea of free love into her marriage. She was never unfaithful to her huand Hephaestus. Her huand once caught her in a net when she was lying with Mars.
Then he amused them in front of the gods. She is amiable, responsible and ready to help young lovers in need. She loved Adonis, revived Galatia's condition, and helped young hippies in his race..
中文翻译:
阿芙罗狄蒂是极美的女神。她的出生是一个神秘的日子。在奥林匹亚人开始在宇宙中享受权力的日子里,海上漂浮的气泡闪耀着神圣的光辉。
从海浪中升起一个美丽可爱的少女,散发着温暖和魅力。她随后被海洋仙女带到塞浦路斯成为了她的神圣岛屿。她的美丽是无法形容的,她被正确地称为美丽的。
她死后戴着一顶金色的王冠。她的眼睛深邃而柔和,充满温暖。她长长的垂饰垂在她圆润的脖子和白色的胸前。
她纤细的手指和玫瑰色的双脚使她的优雅更加迷人优雅。当她第一次登上奥林匹斯山时,她苗条的百合花身材既引起了众神的热烈崇拜,也引起了女神的强烈嫉妒。她被任命为爱情和婚姻的女神。
她坐在由麻雀或天鹅拉着的马车上,周游四方,激发人们心中的爱在她的小儿子爱神的帮助下,她编造了许多关于神和人的生活中的快乐和悲伤的故事。由于不那么严肃,她把自由爱情的思想引入婚姻生活中。她从不忠实于她的丈夫赫菲斯托斯。
Love is one of the basic attributes of human beings. Marriage is a natural and extremely effective environment for the development of love. Therefore, the love between men and women leads to marriage and marriage, which brings family and family.
Family provides a framework for each family member, so that each family member can grow into a person full of love and security. In theory, marriage is the bridge of love Liang, family love is the foundation of marriage, while marriage is the development of love. In the past, people often get married without their own consent, that is to say, without their own love experience, their parents arranged for two people to get married, one male and one female.
They were completely strangers. They married and became husband and wife. They knew nothing about each other before.
Of course, love is an inseparable book These two types of marriage often lead to unhappiness. Tragic stories about mismatched couples are often heard, so love is the basis of marriage, and marriage without love will not be happy. With the development of society, love becomes more noble, richer, more delicate and more subtle.
Sometimes love is romantic lovers, and they don't pay much attention to the trivial matters in daily life. Some people fall in love at first sight and get married in a hurry. They usually ignore the commitment required by marriage.
They may encounter some problems in marriage and eventually lead to divorce, which seems to prove that marriage is not what people usually think That's romantic, but in the daily life of the family, mutual respect and compromise are realistic. In this sense, marriage is an extension of marriage. If marriage achieves the function of reproduction, then the family can continue.
However, nothing can fulfill the function of family more effectively than love. The love of husband and wife, the love of parents and children, and the love of family members can pave the way for a better future of the family. A family that can bear hardships and stand hard and pass down from generation to generation is love and harmony.
Love is the foundation of marriage and family. A famous person once said that in an existing world, there is no more powerful force than love. Love needs to be reflected in the way of cooperation and sharing, and with a happy marriage, the family will be happy.
中文翻译:
爱情是人的一种基本属性,随着个体的成熟而成熟婚姻是一种自然的、极其有效的爱情发展环境因此男女之间的爱情导致了婚姻婚姻带来了家庭家庭家庭为每个家庭成员提供了一个框架,使每个家庭成员都能成长为一个充满爱和安全感的人按理说,婚姻是爱情的桥梁,家庭爱情是婚姻的基础,而婚姻是爱情的发展,过去人们结婚往往不经过自己的同意,也就是说,没有自己的恋爱经历,父母安排了两个人结婚,一男一女,他们完全是陌生人,他们结婚了,成了夫妻,他们以前彼此一无所知,当然,爱情是一本密不可分的书,这两种类型的婚姻往往会导致不幸福。关于不相配的夫妻的悲惨故事常被听到,所以爱情是婚姻的基础,没有爱情的婚姻不会是幸福的。随着社会的发展,爱情变得更高尚、更丰富、更精致、更微妙,爱情有时是浪漫的恋人不太注意日常生活中的琐事有些人一见钟情就匆忙结婚他们通常忽视了婚姻所要求的承诺他们可能会在婚姻中遇到一些问题最终导致离婚这似乎证明了婚姻并不像人们通常想象的那样浪漫,但在家庭的日常生活中,相互尊重和妥协是现实的。
从这个意义上说,婚姻是婚姻的延伸。如果婚姻实现了再生产的功能,那么这个家庭就可以持续下去。然而,没有什么比爱情更能有效地履行家庭的功能了夫妻之爱,亲子之爱,家庭成员之爱,都能为家庭的美好未来铺平道路。
能吃苦耐劳、代代相传的家庭,总而言之就是爱与和谐,爱情是婚姻和家庭的基础一位名人曾说过,在一个存在的世界里,确实没有比爱情更强大的力量了,爱情需要以合作和分享的方式来体现,并且有了幸福的婚姻,家庭才会幸福。